📚Some Great Non-Fiction Reads to Nurture, Inspire & Invigorate
Things I Gift, Gobble & Gush About Glowingly (and hope you will, too!)
📚My Favorite General Non-Fiction*
(A-Z by title)
🎁 = Gifted Often/Won’t STFU About
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The ALL NEW Don't Think of an Elephant!: Know Your Values and Frame the Debate - George Lakoff
“Ten years after writing the definitive, international bestselling book on political debate and messaging, George Lakoff returns with new strategies about how to frame today’s essential issues.”
The American Bible: How Our Words Unite, Divide, and Define a Nation - Prothero, Stephen
“The New York Times bestselling author of Religious Literacy and God Is Not One presents a provocative crash course in the great “American scriptures”—those texts that have both divided and defined our understanding of what it is to be American.”
Animal, Vegetable, Miracle: Our Year of Seasonal Eating - Barbara Kingsolver
“Barbara Kingsolver opens her home to us, as she and her family attempt a year of eating only local food, much of it from their own garden. Inspired by the flavours and culinary arts of a local food culture, they explore many a farmers market and diversified organic farms at home and across the country.”
🎁 Anne Frank: The Diary of a Young Girl: The Definitive Edition - Anne Frank
I read this uncensored edition while in Amsterdam before touring the Anne Frank house. Everything omitted when made to read this in elementary school is now in this definitive edition. It haunts me. Cannot recommend this - or the limited series A Small Light - enough. I think of Anne and her family often.
Antifragile: Things That Gain from Disorder (Incerto Book 3) - Nassim Nicholas Taleb
“Antifragile is a standalone book in Nassim Nicholas Taleb’s landmark Incerto series, an investigation of opacity, luck, uncertainty, probability, human error, risk, and decision-making in a world we don’t understand.”
April 1865: The Month That Saved America - Jay Winik
“One month in 1865 witnessed the frenzied fall of Richmond, a daring last-ditch Southern plan for guerrilla warfare, Lee's harrowing retreat, and then, Appomattox. It saw Lincoln's assassination just five days later and a near-successful plot to decapitate the Union government, followed by chaos and coup fears in the North, collapsed negotiations and continued bloodshed in the South, and finally, the start of national reconciliation.”
The Art of Memoir - Mary Karr
“Karr is a national treasure—that rare genius who’s also a brilliant teacher. This joyful celebration of memoir packs transcendent insights with trademark hilarity. Anyone yearning to write will be inspired, and anyone passionate to live an examined life will fall in love with language and literature all over again.” — George Saunders
🎁 Atlas Obscura: An Explorer's Guide to the World's Hidden Wonders - Foer, Joshua
A gorgeous tome and fab gift for the globe trotter - or wannabe wanderer - in your life (including yourself!)
“A wanderlust-whetting cabinet of curiosities on paper.”— New York Times
Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones - James Clear
“Atomic Habits will reshape the way you think about progress and success, and give you the tools and strategies you need to transform your habits--whether you are a team looking to win a championship, an organization hoping to redefine an industry, or simply an individual who wishes to quit smoking, lose weight, reduce stress, or achieve any other goal.”
Automating Inequality: How High-Tech Tools Profile, Police, and Punish the Poor - Virginia Eubanks
“A powerful investigative look at data-based discrimination and how technology affects civil and human rights and economic equity”
Awaken Your Genius: Escape Conformity, Ignite Creativity, and Become Extraordinary - Ozan Varol, PublicAffairs
“We say some people march to the beat of a different drummer. But implicit in this cliché is that the rest of us march to the same beat. We sleepwalk through life, find ourselves on well-worn paths that were never ours to walk, and become a silent extra in someone else’s story.”
Awareness: Conversations with the Masters - Anthony de Mello, SJ, J. Francis Stroud
“The heart of Anthony de Mello's bestselling spiritual message is awareness. Mixing Christian spirituality, Buddhist parables, Hindu breathing exercises, and psychological insight, de Mello's words of hope come together in Awareness in a grand synthesis.”
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Balkan Ghosts: A Journey Through History - Robert D. Kaplan
I fell in love with the Balkans during my time there. I am a bit ashamed of my surface knowledge/ignorance of what took place there in my teens and twenties. The repercussions are still palpable today.
“From the assassination that triggered World War I to the ethnic warfare in Serbia, Bosnia, and Croatia, the Balkans have been the crucible of the twentieth century, the place where terrorism and genocide first became tools of policy. Chosen as one of the Best Books of the Year by The New York Times, and greeted with critical acclaim as "the most insightful and timely work on the Balkans to date" (The Boston Globe).”
Battle Cry of Freedom: The Civil War Era - James M. McPherson
“Winner of the 1988 Pulitzer Prize for History and a New York Times Bestseller, Battle Cry of Freedom is universally recognized as the definitive account of the Civil War. It was hailed in The New York Times as "historical writing of the highest order."“
Becoming - Michelle Obama
“In her memoir, a work of deep reflection and mesmerizing storytelling, Michelle Obama invites readers into her world, chronicling the experiences that have shaped her—from her childhood on the South Side of Chicago to her years as an executive balancing the demands of motherhood and work, to her time spent at the world’s most famous address.”
🎁 The Best Land Under Heaven: The Donner Party in the Age of Manifest Destiny - Wallis, Michael
The Donner-Reed Party has been my obsession for the better part of 2023. This ain’t your grandaddy’s Donners. Bad decision making, bad luck and bad weather makes for bad outcomes. My friends are sick of my Donner mania. Get this book so you can drain your friends and never get invited anywhere, too!
Longlisted for the Andrew Carnegie Medal for Excellence
A Publishers Weekly Holiday Guide History Pick
“A book so gripping it can scarcely be put down.... Superb.” ―New York Times Book Review
Beyond the Shadow of Camptown: Korean Military Brides in America (Nation of Newcomers: Immigrant History as American History) - Yuh, Ji-Yeon
“Since the beginning of the Korean War in 1950, nearly 100,000 Korean women have immigrated to the United States as the wives of American soldiers. Based on extensive oral interviews and archival research, Beyond the Shadow of Camptown tells the stories of these women, from their presumed association with U.S. military camptowns and prostitution to their struggles within the intercultural families they create in the United States.”
The Biggest Bluff: How I Learned to Pay Attention, Master Myself, and Win – Maria Konnikova
“The tale of how Konnikova followed a story about poker players and wound up becoming a story herself will have you riveted, first as you learn about her big winnings, and then as she conveys the lessons she learned both about human nature and herself.” —The Washington Post
The Big Oyster: History on the Half Shell - Mark Kurlansky
“Award-winning author Mark Kurlansky tells the remarkable story of New York by following the trajectory of one of its most fascinating inhabitants–the oyster.
For centuries New York was famous for this particular shellfish, which until the early 1900s played such a dominant a role in the city’s life that the abundant bivalves were Gotham’s most celebrated export, a staple food for all classes, and a natural filtration system for the city’s congested waterways.”
The Big Picture: On the Origins of Life, Meaning, and the Universe Itself - Sean Carroll
“Vivid...impressive....Splendidly informative.”—The New York Times
“Succeeds spectacularly.”—Science
“A tour de force.”—Salon
Sean Carroll is emerging as one of the greatest humanist thinkers of his generation as he brings his extraordinary intellect to bear not only on Higgs bosons and extra dimensions but now also on our deepest personal questions: Where are we? Who are we? Are our emotions, our beliefs, and our hopes and dreams ultimately meaningless out there in the void? Do human purpose and meaning fit into a scientific worldview?
Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life - Anne Lamott
“An essential volume for generations of writers young and old. The twenty-fifth anniversary edition of this modern classic will continue to spark creative minds for years to come. Anne Lamott is "a warm, generous, and hilarious guide through the writer’s world and its treacherous swamps" (Los Angeles Times).”
Black Boy - Richard Wright
“When it exploded onto the literary scene in 1945, Black Boy was both praised and condemned. Orville Prescott of the New York Times wrote that “if enough such books are written, if enough millions of people read them maybe, someday, in the fullness of time, there will be a greater understanding and a more true democracy.” Yet from 1975 to 1978, Black Boy was banned in schools throughout the United States for “obscenity” and “instigating hatred between the races.””
Black Feminist Thought: Knowledge, Consciousness, and the Politics of Empowerment - Patricia Hill Collins
“In Black Feminist Thought, Patricia Hill Collins explores the words and ideas of Black feminist intellectuals as well as those African-American women outside academe. She provides an interpretive framework for the work of such prominent Black feminist thinkers as Angela Davis, bell hooks, Alice Walker, and Audre Lorde. The result is a superbly crafted book that provides the first synthetic overview of Black feminist thought.”
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma - Bessel van der Kolk
““Essential reading for anyone interested in understanding and treating traumatic stress and the scope of its impact on society.” —Alexander McFarlane, Director of the Centre for Traumatic Stress Studies”
A Burst of Light and Other Essays - Audre Lorde
“A great American theorist of race, sexuality, gender, living, and dying, poet and activist Audre Lorde (1934–1992) created a body of work that was ahead of its time in its embrace of intersectionality. Her powerful collection of essays is a call to action for the social justice movement. Discover her inspiring words on intersectionality, lesbian sexuality, African-American identity, self-care and more.”
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Cannibalism: A Perfectly Natural History - Bill Schutt
“Surprising. Impressive. Cannibalism restores my faith in humanity.” —Sy Montgomery, The New York Times Book Review
Cassandra Speaks: When Women Are the Storytellers, the Human Story Changes - Elizabeth Lesser
“Cassandra Speaks is about the stories we tell and how those stories become the culture. It’s about the stories we still blindly cling to, and the ones that cling to us: the origin tales, the guiding myths, the religious parables, the literature and films and fairy tales passed down through the centuries about women and men, power and war, sex and love, and the values we live by. Stories written mostly by men with lessons and laws for all of humanity.”
The Coldest Winter: America and the Korean War - David Halberstam
“David Halberstam's magisterial and thrilling The Best and the Brightest was the defining book about the Vietnam conflict. More than three decades later, Halberstam used his unrivaled research and formidable journalistic skills to shed light on another pivotal moment in our history: the Korean War. Halberstam considered The Coldest Winter his most accomplished work, the culmination of forty-five years of writing about America's postwar foreign policy.”
The Color of Law: A Forgotten History of How Our Government Segregated America - Richard Rothstein
“New York Times Bestseller • Notable Book of the Year • Editors' Choice Selection
One of Bill Gates’ “Amazing Books” of the Year
One of Publishers Weekly’s 10 Best Books of the Year
Longlisted for the National Book Award for Nonfiction
An NPR Best Book of the Year
Winner of the Hillman Prize for Nonfiction
Gold Winner • California Book Award (Nonfiction)
Finalist • Los Angeles Times Book Prize (History)
Finalist • Brooklyn Public Library Literary Prize
This “powerful and disturbing history” exposes how American governments deliberately imposed racial segregation on metropolitan areas nationwide (New York Times Book Review).
The Confidence Game: Why We Fall for It . . . Every Time – Maria Konnikova
“While cheats and swindlers may be a dime a dozen, true conmen—the Bernie Madoffs, the Jim Bakkers, the Lance Armstrongs—are elegant, outsized personalities, artists of persuasion and exploiters of trust. How do they do it? Why are they successful? And what keeps us falling for it, over and over again? These are the questions that journalist and psychologist Maria Konnikova tackles in her mesmerizing new book.”
The Conquest of Happiness - Bertrand Russell, Daniel C. Dennett
““Should be read by every parent, teacher, minister, and Congressman in the land.”―The Atlantic
In The Conquest of Happiness, first published by Liveright in 1930, iconoclastic philosopher Bertrand Russell attempted to diagnose the myriad causes of unhappiness in modern life and chart a path out of the seemingly inescapable malaise so prevalent even in safe and prosperous Western societies. More than eighty years later, Russell’s wisdom remains as true as it was on its initial release.”
Cuba: An American History - Dr. Ada Ferrer
Winner of the Pulitzer Prize.
“Full of…lively insights and lucid prose” (The Wall Street Journal) an epic, sweeping history of Cuba and its complex ties to the United States—from before the arrival of Columbus to the present day—written by one of the world’s leading historians of Cuba.”
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Dear Madam President - Jennifer Palmieri
“As a country, we haven't wrapped our heads around what it should look like for a woman to be in the job of President. Our only models are men. While wildly disappointed by the outcome of the 2016 election, Palmieri argues that our feelings-confusion, love, hate, acceptance-can now open the country up to reimagining women in leadership roles.”
Deep Work: Rules for Focused Success in a Distracted World - Cal Newport
“In Deep Work, author and professor Cal Newport flips the narrative on impact in a connected age. Instead of arguing distraction is bad, he instead celebrates the power of its opposite.”
Directorate S: The C.I.A. and America's Secret Wars in Afghanistan and Pakistan - Steve Coll
“Winner of the National Book Critics Circle Award for Nonfiction. Nominated for the National Book Award for Nonfiction
From the Pulitzer Prize-winning author of Ghost Wars and The Achilles Trap, the epic and enthralling story of America's intelligence, military, and diplomatic efforts to defeat Al Qaeda and the Taliban in Afghanistan and Pakistan since 9/11.”
The Dream of a Common Language: Poems 1974-1977 - Adrienne Rich
““Certain lines had become like incantations to me, words I’d chanted to myself through sorrow and confusion” ―Cheryl Strayed, Wild
“The Dream of a Common Language explores the contours of a woman’s heart and mind in language for everybody―language whose plainness, laughter, questions and nobility everyone can respond to. . . . No one is writing better or more needed verse than this.”―Boston Evening Globe”
Dry: A Memoir - Augusten Burroughs
“You may not know it, but you've met Augusten Burroughs. You've seen him on the street, in bars, on the subway, at restaurants: a twentysomething guy, nice suit, works in advertising. Regular. Ordinary. But when the ordinary person had two drinks, Augusten was circling the drain by having twelve; when the ordinary person went home at midnight, Augusten never went home at all. Loud, distracting ties, automated wake-up calls and cologne on the tongue could only hide so much for so long. At the request (well, it wasn't really a request) of his employers, Augusten lands in rehab, where his dreams of group therapy with Robert Downey Jr. are immediately dashed by grim reality of fluorescent lighting and paper hospital slippers.”
Dubrovnik: A History - Robin Harris
“Since emerging as a settlement in the seventh century, Dubrovnik held a significant position beyond what could have been expected of this tiny city-state. Its merchants, trading throughout the huge Ottoman Empire, enjoyed privileges denied to other Western states. A politically skilled and commercially enterprising ruling class took every opportunity to maximize the republic’s wealth.”
Dying to Be Me: My Journey from Cancer, to Near Death, to True Healing - Anita Moorjani, Wayne W. Dyer
“In this truly inspirational memoir, Anita Moorjani relates how, after fighting cancer for almost four years, her body began shutting down—overwhelmed by the malignant cells spreading throughout her system. As her organs failed, she entered into an extraordinary near-death experience where she realized her inherent worth . . . and the actual cause of her disease. Upon regaining consciousness, Anita found that her condition had improved so rapidly that she was released from the hospital within weeks—without a trace of cancer in her body.”
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Educated: A Memoir - Tara Westover
“One of the most acclaimed books of our time: an unforgettable memoir about a young woman who, kept out of school, leaves her survivalist family and goes on to earn a PhD from Cambridge University.”
Ego Is the Enemy - Ryan Holiday
“While the history books are filled with tales of obsessive visionary geniuses who remade the world in their image with sheer, almost irrational force, I’ve found that history is also made by individuals who fought their egos at every turn, who eschewed the spotlight, and who put their higher goals above their desire for recognition.”
Einstein: His Life and Universe - Walter Isaacson
“Based on newly released personal letters of Einstein, this book explores how an imaginative, impertinent patent clerk—a struggling father in a difficult marriage who couldn’t get a teaching job or a doctorate—became the mind reader of the creator of the cosmos, the locksmith of the mysteries of the atom, and the universe. His success came from questioning conventional wisdom and marveling at mysteries that struck others as mundane. This led him to embrace a morality and politics based on respect for free minds, free spirits, and free individuals.”
Emotional Intelligence 2.0 - Travis Bradberry, Jean Greaves
“By now, emotional intelligence (EQ) needs little introduction—it’s no secret that EQ is critical to your success. But knowing what EQ is and knowing how to use it to improve your life are two very different things.
Emotional Intelligence 2.0 delivers a step-by-step program for increasing your EQ via four, core EQ skills that enable you to achieve your fullest potential.”
Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less - McKeown, Greg
“Essentialism is more than a time-management strategy or a productivity technique. It is a systematic discipline for discerning what is absolutely essential, then eliminating everything that is not, so we can make the highest possible contribution toward the things that really matter.”
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Facts and Fears: Hard Truths from a Life in Intelligence - James R. Clapper, Trey Brown
Gen. Clapper was my father’s Commanding Officer and friend when we were stationed in Korea in the 80’s. Our families socialized often and I went to school with his son. All this is to say that when Trump disparaged Gen. Clapper’s character, service and career, it was beyond a travesty and unmitigated character assassination.
“The former Director of National Intelligence speaks out in this New York Times bestseller. When he stepped down in January 2017 as the fourth United States Director of National Intelligence, James Clapper had been President Obama's senior intelligence advisor for six and a half years, longer than his three predecessors combined. He led the US Intelligence Community through a period that included the raid on Osama bin Laden, the Benghazi attack, the leaks of Edward Snowden, and Russia's influence operation on the 2016 U.S election.”
Fat Talk: Parenting in the Age of Diet Culture - Virginia Sole-Smith
“In this illuminating narrative, journalist Virginia Sole-Smith exposes the daily onslaught of fatphobia and body shaming that kids face from school, sports, doctors, diet culture, and parents themselves―and offers strategies for how families can change the conversation around weight, health, and self-worth.”
Fear: Essential Wisdom for Getting Through the Storm - Thich Nhat Hanh
“A powerful and practical guide to overcoming our debilitating uncertainties and personal terrors by Vietnamese Buddhist Zen Master, poet, scholar, peace activist, and one of the foremost spiritual leaders in the world - Thich Nhat Hanh.”
The First Rule of Mastery: Stop Worrying about What People Think of You - by Michael Gervais PhD, Kevin Lake
“High-performance psychologist Michael Gervais presents a groundbreaking guide for overcoming what may be the single greatest constrictor of human potential: our fear of people’s opinions (FOPO).”
Flowers of Fire: The Inside Story of South Korea’s Feminist Movement and What it Means for Women’s Rights Worldwide - Hawon Jung
“One of Ms. Magazine's "most-anticipated feminist books of 2023"
An eye-opening firsthand account of the ongoing and trailblazing feminist movement in South Korea—one that the world should be watching.”
🎁 Fluent Forever: How to Learn Any Language Fast and Never Forget It - Wyner, Gabriel
This book completely changed my language learning game. Now I understand why all those years of high school and college Spanish yielded nada. See what I did there? Using these methods, I’m pretty comfortable in about five languages and adding Romanian to the list. See also Moonwalking With Einstein for superhuman memory and learning systems/techniques.
“At thirty years old, Gabriel Wyner speaks six languages fluently. He didn’t learn them in school—who does? Rather, he learned them in the past few years, working on his own and practicing on the subway, using simple techniques and free online resources—and here he wants to show others what he’s discovered.”
The Food Explorer: The True Adventures of the Globe-Trotting Botanist Who Transformed What America Eats - Daniel Stone
““Fascinating.”— The New York Times Book Review
The true adventures of David Fairchild, a turn-of-the-century food explorer who traveled the globe and introduced diverse crops like avocados, mangoes, seedless grapes—and thousands more—to the American plate.”
Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals - Oliver Burkeman
“Drawing on the insights of both ancient and contemporary philosophers, psychologists, and spiritual teachers, Oliver Burkeman delivers an entertaining, humorous, practical, and ultimately profound guide to time and time management.”
Freedom's Mirror: Cuba and Haiti in the Age of Revolution - Dr. Ada Ferrer
“During the Haitian Revolution of 1791-1804, arguably the most radical revolution of the modern world, slaves and former slaves succeeded in ending slavery and establishing an independent state. Yet on the Spanish island of Cuba barely fifty miles distant, the events in Haiti helped usher in the antithesis of revolutionary emancipation. When Cuban planters and authorities saw the devastation of the neighboring colony, they rushed to fill the void left in the world market for sugar, to buttress the institutions of slavery and colonial rule, and to prevent "another Haiti" from happening in their own territory.”
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Girl Walks into a Bar...: Comedy Calamities, Dating Disasters, and a Midlife Miracle - Rachel Dratch
“The former SNL star recounts the adventures and unexpected joy of dating and becoming a mom when she least expected it—at the age of forty-four.”
The Glass Castle: A Memoir - Walls, Jeannette
“The extraordinary, one-of-a-kind, “nothing short of spectacular” (Entertainment Weekly) memoir from one of the world’s most gifted storytellers.
The Glass Castle is a remarkable memoir of resilience and redemption, and a revelatory look into a family at once deeply dysfunctional and uniquely vibrant.”
Great Plains - Ian Frazier
“Most travelers only fly over the Great Plains--but Ian Frazier, ever the intrepid and wide-eyed wanderer, is not your average traveler. A hilarious and fascinating look at the great middle of our nation.”
A Grief Observed - C. S. Lewis
Although I am not a practicing Christian, this book provided comfort, solace and understanding where none existed after a rough string of losing loved ones (human and animal). For when you’re feeling gutted and nobody gets it even when they mean well.
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🎁 A Handful of Earth, A Handful of Sky: The World of Octavia Butler - Lynell George
“A Handful of Earth, A Handful of Sky: The World of Octavia E. Butler offers a blueprint for a creative life from the perspective of award-winning science-fiction writer and “MacArthur Genius” Octavia E. Butler. It is a collection of ideas about how to look, listen, breathe - how to be in the world.”
He/She/They: How We Talk About Gender and Why It Matters - Schuyler Bailar
“Schuyler Bailar didn’t set out to be an activist, but his very public transition to the Harvard men’s swim team put him in the spotlight. His choice to be open about his transition and share his experience has touched people around the world. His plain-spoken education has evolved into tireless advocacy for inclusion and collective liberation.”
🎁 Hello, Molly!: A Memoir - Molly Shannon, Sean Wilsey
“A candid, compulsively readable, hilarious, and heartbreaking memoir of resilience and redemption by comedic genius Molly Shannon.”
Help, Thanks, Wow: The Three Essential Prayers - Anne Lamott
“Author Anne Lamott writes about the three simple prayers essential to coming through tough times, difficult days and the hardships of daily life.”
The Hero with a Thousand Faces (The Collected Works of Joseph Campbell)
“Since its release in 1949, The Hero with a Thousand Faces has influenced millions of readers by combining the insights of modern psychology with Joseph Campbell’s revolutionary understanding of comparative mythology. In these pages, Campbell outlines the Hero’s Journey, a universal motif of adventure and transformation that runs through virtually all of the world’s mythic traditions.”
Hilma af Klint: A Biography - Julia Voss, Anne Posten
“The Swedish painter Hilma af Klint (1862–1944) was forty-four years old when she broke with the academic tradition in which she had been trained to produce a body of radical, abstract works the likes of which had never been seen before. Today, it is widely accepted that af Klint was one of the earliest abstract academic painters in Europe.
But this is only part of her story. Not only was she a working female artist, she was also an avowed clairvoyant and mystic…”
Hidden Potential: The Science of Achieving Greater Things - Adam Grant
““This brilliant book will shatter your assumptions about what it takes to improve and succeed. I wish I could go back in time and gift it to my younger self. It would’ve helped me find a more joyful path to progress.”
—Serena Williams, 23-time Grand Slam singles tennis champion”
How Not to Be Wrong: The Power of Mathematical Thinking - Ellenberg, Jordan
“The math we learn in school can seem like a dull set of rules, laid down by the ancients and not to be questioned. In How Not to Be Wrong, Jordan Ellenberg shows us how terribly limiting this view is: Math isn’t confined to abstract incidents that never occur in real life, but rather touches everything we do—the whole world is shot through with it.”
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I Hear You: The Surprisingly Simple Skill Behind Extraordinary Relationships - Michael S. Sorensen, Autumn Creek Press
“What if making one tweak to your day-to-day conversations could immediately improve every relationship in your life?”
🎁 In the Garden of Beasts: Love, Terror, and an American Family in Hitler's Berlin - Erik Larson
Became so obsessed with this family’s story while I was in Berlin, I sought out many of the landmarks mentioned. “Enthralling” doesn’t do this book justice. If only the State Department took the Ambassador’s concerns about Hitler seriously…
“The time is 1933, the place, Berlin, when William E. Dodd becomes America’s first ambassador to Hitler’s Nazi Germany in a year that proved to be a turning point in history.
A mild-mannered professor from Chicago, Dodd brings along his wife, son, and flamboyant daughter, Martha. At first Martha is entranced by the parties and pomp, and the handsome young men of the Third Reich with their infectious enthusiasm for restoring Germany to a position of world prominence. Enamored of the “New Germany,” she has one affair after another, including with the suprisingly honorable first chief of the Gestapo, Rudolf Diels.
But as evidence of Jewish persecution mounts, confirmed by chilling first-person testimony, her father telegraphs his concerns to a largely indifferent State Department back home…”
Iron Curtain: The Crushing of Eastern Europe, 1944-1956 - Anne Applebaum
“In the much-anticipated follow-up to her Pulitzer Prize-winning Gulag, acclaimed journalist Anne Applebaum delivers a groundbreaking history of how Communism took over Eastern Europe after World War II and transformed in frightening fashion the individuals who came under its sway.”
Isaac's Storm: A Man, a Time, and the Deadliest Hurricane in History - Erik Larson
“September 8, 1900, began innocently in the seaside town of Galveston, Texas. Even Isaac Cline, resident meteorologist for the U.S. Weather Bureau failed to grasp the true meaning of the strange deep-sea swells and peculiar winds that greeted the city that morning.”
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Last Days at Hot Slit: The Radical Feminism of Andrea Dworkin - Andrea Dworkin, Johanna Fateman, Amy Scholder
“Radical feminist author Andrea Dworkin was a caricature of misandrist extremism in the popular imagination and a polarizing figure within the women's movement, infamous for her antipornography stance and her role in the feminist sex wars of the 1980s. She still looms large in feminist demands for sexual freedom, evoked as a censorial demagogue, more than a decade after her death.”
The Lessons of History- Ariel & Will Durant
“A concise survey of the culture and civilization of mankind, The Lessons of History is the result of a lifetime of research from Pulitzer Prize–winning historians Will and Ariel Durant.
With their accessible compendium of philosophy and social progress, the Durants take us on a journey through history, exploring the possibilities and limitations of humanity over time. Juxtaposing the great lives, ideas, and accomplishments with cycles of war and conquest, the Durants reveal the towering themes of history and give meaning to our own.”
🎁 Letting Go: The Pathway of Surrender - Hawkins M.D. Ph.D, David R.
“During the many decades of Dr. David Hawkins’, clinical psychiatric practice, the primary aim was to seek the most effective ways to relieve human suffering in all of its many forms. In Letting Go, he shares from his clinical and personal experience that surrender is the surest route to total fulfillment.”
🎁 Life Will Be the Death of Me: ...And You Too! - Chelsea Handler
Hilarity & Humanity Ensues…
“Thrillingly honest and insightful, Chelsea Handler’s darkly comic memoir is also a clever and sly work of inspiration that gets us to ask ourselves what really matters in our own lives.”
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Made to Stick: Why Some Ideas Survive and Others Die - Chip Heath, Dan Heath
“In Made to Stick, Chip and Dan Heath reveal the anatomy of ideas that stick and explain ways to make ideas stickier, such as applying the human scale principle, using the Velcro Theory of Memory, and creating curiosity gaps. Along the way, we discover that sticky messages of all kinds—from the infamous “kidney theft ring” hoax to a coach’s lessons on sportsmanship to a vision for a new product at Sony—draw their power from the same six traits.”
Magical Thinking: True Stories - Augusten Burroughs
“From the #1 bestselling author of Running with Scissors and Dry--a contagiously funny, heartwarming, shocking, twisted, and absolutely magical collection. True stories that give voice to the thoughts we all have but dare not mention.”
🎁 Man's Search for Meaning - Frankl, Viktor E.
Your highlighter will run dry with this short book. Should be required reading the minute one learns to read for comprehension.
“A book for finding purpose and strength in times of great despair, the international best-seller is still just as relevant today as when it was first published.”
Many Lives, Many Masters: The True Story of a Prominent Psychiatrist, His Young Patient, and the Past-Life Therapy That Changed Both Their Lives - Weiss, Brian L.
🤔You decide!
“As a traditional psychotherapist, Dr. Brian Weiss was astonished and skeptical when one of his patients began recalling past-life traumas that seemed to hold the key to her recurring nightmares and anxiety attacks. His skepticism was eroded, however, when she began to channel messages from the “space between lives,” which contained remarkable revelations about Dr. Weiss’ family and his dead son.
Mastery – Robert Greene
“Each one of us has within us the potential to be a Master. Learn the secrets of the field you have chosen, submit to a rigorous apprenticeship, absorb the hidden knowledge possessed by those with years of experience, surge past competitors to surpass them in brilliance, and explode established patterns from within.”
Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence - Esther Perel
“One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.”
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, HER Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed - Lori Gottlieb
“From a New York Times best-selling author, psychotherapist, and national advice columnist, a hilarious, thought-provoking, and surprising new book that takes us behind the scenes of a therapist's world--where her patients are looking for answers (and so is she).”
Meaty: Essays by Samantha Irby, Creator of the Blog BitchesGottaEat - Samantha Irby
“Samantha Irby explodes onto the printed page with her debut collection of brand-new essays about trying to laugh her way through failed relationships, being black, taco feasts, bouts with Crohn's disease, and more.”
Meditations - Aurelius, Marcus
“Meditations is a series of personal writings by Marcus Aurelius, Roman Emperor from 161 to 180 AD, recording his private notes to himself and ideas on Stoic philosophy.”
A Memoir of My Former Self: A Life in Writing - Hilary Mante
“THE FINAL BOOK FROM ONE OF OUR GREATEST WRITERS
“Ink is a generative fluid,” she explains. “If you don’t mean your words to breed consequences, don’t write at all.” A Memoir of My Former Self collects the finest of this writing over four decades.”
The Menopause Manifesto: Own Your Health With Facts & Feminism
“Menopause is not a disease—it’s a planned change, like puberty. And just like puberty, we should be educated on what’s to come years in advance, rather than the current practice of leaving people on their own with bothersome symptoms and too much conflicting information. Knowing what is happening, why, and what to do about it is both empowering and reassuring.”
🎁 Moonwalking with Einstein: The Art and Science of Remembering Everything - Joshua Foer, Mike Chamberlain, et al.
People are always “borrowing” my copy. I think I helped make this a bestseller by having to repurchase it ad infinitum. Fantastic, actionable and addictive read.
“An instant bestseller that has now become a classic, Moonwalking with Einstein recounts Joshua Foer's yearlong quest to improve his memory under the tutelage of top "mental athletes." He draws on cutting-edge research, a surprising cultural history of remembering, and venerable tricks of the mentalist's trade to transform our understanding of human memory. From the United States Memory Championship to deep within the author's own mind, this is an electrifying work of journalism that reminds us that, in every way that matters, we are the sum of our memories.”
The Moth Presents All These Wonders: True Stories About Facing the Unknown - Catherine Burns, Neil Gaiman
““Wonderful." —Michiko Kakutani, New York Times
Celebrating the 20th anniversary of storytelling phenomenon The Moth, 45 unforgettable true stories about risk, courage, and facing the unknown, drawn from the best ever told on their stages.”
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A Natural History of the Senses - Diane Ackerman
“Diane Ackerman's lusciously written grand tour of the realm of the senses includes conversations with an iceberg in Antarctica and a professional nose in New York, along with dissertations on kisses and tattoos, sadistic cuisine and the music played by the planet Earth.”
Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as if Your Life Depended on It - Chris Voss
“Life is a series of negotiations you should be prepared for: buying a car, negotiating a salary, buying a home, renegotiating rent, deliberating with your partner. Taking emotional intelligence and intuition to the next level, Never Split the Difference gives you the competitive edge in any discussion.”
A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose - Eckhart Tolle
“Illuminating, enlightening, and uplifting, A New Earth is a profoundly spiritual manifesto for a better way of life—and for building a better world.”
Nickel and Dimed (20th Anniversary Edition)- Barbara Ehrenreich
“Millions of Americans work full time, year round, for poverty-level wages. In 1998, Barbara Ehrenreich decided to join them. She was inspired in part by the rhetoric surrounding welfare reform, which promised that a job―any job―can be the ticket to a better life. But how does anyone survive, let alone prosper, on $6 an hour?”
Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships -Rosenberg PhD, Marshall B.
“5,000,000 COPIES SOLD WORLDWIDE • TRANSLATED IN MORE THAN 35 LANGUAGES
If “violent” means acting in ways that result in hurt or harm, then much of how we communicate—judging others, bullying, having racial bias, blaming, finger pointing, discriminating, speaking without listening, criticizing others or ourselves, name-calling, reacting when angry, using political rhetoric, being defensive or judging who’s “good/bad” or what’s “right/wrong” with people—could indeed be called “violent communication.”
No Time Like the Present: Finding Freedom, Love, and Joy Right Where You Are - Jack Kornfield
“In this landmark work, internationally beloved teacher of meditation and “one of the great spiritual teachers of our time” (Alice Walker, author of The Color Purple) Jack Kornfield reveals that you can be instantly happy with the keys to inner freedom.”
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🎁 The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph - Holiday, Ryan
When you need to dig deep against personal and public Goliaths, dig into this.
“The Obstacle is the Way has become a cult classic, beloved by men and women around the world who apply its wisdom to become more successful at whatever they do.”
🎁 On Our Best Behavior: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to Be Good - Elise Loehnen
Gripping, entertaining and thought provoking. One of my favorite non-fiction books of 2023.
“NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • A groundbreaking exploration of the ancient rules women unwittingly follow in order to be considered “good,” revealing how the Seven Deadly Sins still control and distort our lives and illuminating a path toward a more balanced, spiritually complete way to live.”
On Tyranny: Twenty Lessons from the Twentieth Century - Timothy Snyder
“Timothy Snyder’s New York Times bestseller On Tyranny uses the darkest moments in twentieth-century history, from Nazism to Communism, to teach twenty lessons on resisting modern-day authoritarianism.”
On Writing - Stephen King
“ONE OF TIME MAGAZINE’S TOP 100 NONFICTION BOOKS OF ALL TIME
Immensely helpful and illuminating to any aspiring writer, this special edition of Stephen King’s critically lauded, million-copy bestseller shares the experiences, habits, and convictions that have shaped him and his work.”
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A People's History of the United States - Howard Zinn
“Historian Howard Zinn’s A People’s History of the United States chronicles American history from the bottom up, throwing out the official narrative taught in schools—with its emphasis on great men in high places—to focus on the street, the home, and the workplace.”
Plucked: The Incredible Story of How Antibiotics Created Modern Agriculture and Changed the Way the World Eats - Maryn McKenna
“In this riveting investigative narrative, McKenna dives deep into the world of modern agriculture by way of chicken: from the farm where it's raised directly to your dinner table. Consumed more than any other meat in the United States, chicken is emblematic of today's mass food-processing practices and their profound influence on our lives and health.”
The Portable Jung - Jung, Carl G.
“This comprehensive collection of writings by the epoch-shaping Swiss psychoanalyst was edited by Joseph Campbell, himself the most famous of Jung's American followers. It comprises Jung's pioneering studies of the structure of the psyche—including the works that introduced such notions as the collective unconscious, the Shadow, Anima and Animus—as well as inquries into the psychology of spirituality and creativity, and Jung's influential "On Synchronicity," a paper whose implications extend from the I Ching to quantum physics.
The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business - Charles Duhigg
“NAMED ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY The Wall Street Journal • Financial Times
In The Power of Habit, award-winning business reporterCharles Duhigg takes us to the thrilling edge of scientific discoveries that explain why habits exist and how they can be changed. Distilling vast amounts of information into engrossing narratives that take us from the boardrooms of Procter & Gamble to the sidelines of the NFL to the front lines of the civil rights movement, Duhigg presents a whole new understanding of human nature and its potential.”
A Promised Land - Barack Obama
“In the stirring, highly anticipated first volume of his presidential memoirs, Barack Obama tells the story of his improbable odyssey from young man searching for his identity to leader of the free world, describing in strikingly personal detail both his political education and the landmark moments of the first term of his historic presidency—a time of dramatic transformation and turmoil.”
Putin's People: How the KGB Took Back Russia and Then Took On the West - Catherine Belton
“"This riveting, immaculately researched book is arguably the best single volume written about Putin, the people around him and perhaps even about contemporary Russia itself in the past three decades." ―Peter Frankopan, Financial Times
Interference in American elections. The sponsorship of extremist politics in Europe. War in Ukraine. In recent years, Vladimir Putin’s Russia has waged a concerted campaign to expand its influence and undermine Western institutions. But how and why did all this come about, and who has orchestrated it?”
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Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking - Susan Cain
This book made me feel validated! Thanks, book, wanna get coffee? Just kidding, it takes every iota of energy for me to socialize when I’d rather be reading, re-charging and hanging out with my dog.
“In Quiet, Susan Cain argues that we dramatically undervalue introverts and shows how much we lose in doing so. She charts the rise of the Extrovert Ideal throughout the twentieth century and explores how deeply it has come to permeate our culture.”
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🎁Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha - Brach, Tara
No one is coming to save you. Psyche! Tara is coming to save us all!
““Believing that something is wrong with us is a deep and tenacious suffering,” says Tara Brach at the start of this illuminating book. This suffering emerges in crippling self-judgments and conflicts in our relationships, in addictions and perfectionism, in loneliness and overwork—all the forces that keep our lives constricted and unfulfilled. Radical Acceptance offers a path to freedom, including the day-to-day practical guidance developed over Dr. Brach’s forty years of work with therapy clients and Buddhist students.”
Read This if You Want to Take Great Photographs- Henry Carroll
I stumbled upon this brilliant book in the gift shop of Stockholm, Sweden’s stunning Fotografiska Museum. I think they opened another in New York now. Anyway, I was (and still am) a photography neophyte; however, after employing some of the ideas in this fun little book, I had a perspective shift that sticks with me today. A fun byproduct? Hotels and airlines (like KLM Royal Dutch) began contacting me via Instagram for permission to use some of my photographs as well as free lodging offers in exchange for a few photos. That’s one way to explore Europe for a song and a whistle. Who knew?!
“Inspiring readers through iconic images and playful copy, the bestselling Read This if You Want to Take Great Photographs has been revised and updated to include new photographers, a brand-new chapter on the art of feeling, and the latest hands-on tips. Striking images from a diverse range of acclaimed contemporary photographers, such as Anastasia Samoylova, Zanele Muholi, Nadine Ijewere, Campbell Addy and Tyler Mitchell, now join the masterpieces of Henri Cartier-Bresson, Robert Frank, Nan Goldin, Dorothea Lange and Martin Parr.”
🎁 A Really Good Day: How Microdosing Made a Mega Difference in My Mood, My Marriage, and My Life - Ayelet Waldman
🍄-curious? Mushrooms-n-menopause might go together like peas and carrots. This is one woman’s account with microdosing psychedelics. P.S. I’m not a doctor.
“The true story of how a renowned writer’s struggle with mood storms led her to try a remedy as drastic as it is forbidden: microdoses of LSD. Her fascinating journey provides a window into one family and the complex world of a once-infamous drug seen through new eyes.”
The Red Book: A Reader's Edition (Philemon) - C. G. Jung, Sonu Shamdasani
“The Red Book, published to wide acclaim in 2009, contains the nucleus of C. G. Jung’s later works. It was here that he developed his principal theories of the archetypes, the collective unconscious, and the process of individuation that would transform psychotherapy from treatment of the sick into a means for the higher development of the personality.”
The Republic for Which It Stands: The United States during Reconstruction and the Gilded Age, 1865-1896 -Richard White
“At the end of the Civil War the leaders and citizens of the victorious North envisioned the country's future as a free-labor republic, with a homogenous citizenry, both black and white. The South and West were to be reconstructed in the image of the North. Thirty years later Americans occupied an unimagined world. The unity that the Civil War supposedly secured had proved ephemeral. The country was larger, richer, and more extensive, but also more diverse. Life spans were shorter, and physical well-being had diminished, due to disease and hazardous working conditions. Independent producers had become wage earners. The country was Catholic and Jewish as well as Protestant, and increasingly urban and industrial. The "dangerous" classes of the very rich and poor expanded, and deep differences -- ethnic, racial, religious, economic, and political -- divided society. The corruption that gave the Gilded Age its name was pervasive.”
A Rumor of War - Philip Caputo
I minored in history in college. This syllabus staple about the Vietnam War has stayed with me all these years like a loyal ghost. As resonant today.
“A Rumor of War is far more than one soldier’s story. Upon its publication in 1977, it shattered America’s indifference to the fate of the men sent to fight in the jungles of Vietnam. In the years since then, it has become not only a basic text on the Vietnam War but also a renowned classic in the literature of wars throughout history and, as the author writes, of "the things men do in war and the things war does to them."“
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Same as Ever: A Guide to What Never Changes - Morgan Housel, Chris Hill
“Want to understand the changing world? Start with what stays the same. That’s the amazing conclusion of Morgan Housel’s fascinating, useful, and highly-entertaining book.”
— Arthur C. Brooks, Professor, Harvard Kennedy School and Harvard Business School, and #1 New York Times bestselling author
Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind - Yuval Noah Harari
“From a renowned historian comes a groundbreaking narrative of humanity’s creation and evolution—a #1 international bestseller—that explores the ways in which biology and history have defined us and enhanced our understanding of what it means to be “human.”
A Short History of Humanity: A New History of Old Europe - Johannes Krause, Thomas Trappe, Caroline Waight - translator
“Genetics has earned a reputation for smuggling racist ideologies into science, but cutting-edge science makes nonsense of eugenics and “pure” bloodlines. Immigration and genetic exchanges have always defined our species; who we are is a question of culture, not biological inheritance. This revelatory book offers us an entirely new way to understand ourselves, both past and present.”
The Seat of The Soul - Gary Zukav
“'The Seat of the Soul changed the way I see myself. It changed the way I view the world' - Oprah Winfrey
In his iconic bestseller, renowned spiritual teacher Gary Zukav reveals how to become the authority in your own life, how to change the way you see the world and how to interact with others.”
The Seven Necessary Sins for Women and Girls - Mona Eltahawy
“A bold and uncompromising feminist manifesto that shows women and girls how to defy, disrupt, and destroy the patriarchy by embracing the qualities they’ve been trained to avoid.”
Small Giants: Companies That Choose to Be Great Instead of Big, 10th-Anniversary Edition - Bo Burlingham
“It's an axiom of business that great companies grow their revenues and profits year after year. Yet quietly, under the radar, a small number of companies have rejected the pressure of endless growth to focus on more satisfying business goals.”
The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity - Esther Perel
“"A fresh look at infidelity, broadening the focus from the havoc it wreaks within a committed relationship to consider also why people do it, what it means to them, and why breaking up is the expected response to duplicity — but not necessarily the wisest one.” — LA Review of Books”
Stein On Writing: A Master Editor of Some of the Most Successful Writers of Our Century Shares His Craft Techniques and Strategies - Sol Stein
“Stein on Writing provides immediately useful advice for all writers of fiction and nonfiction, whether they are newcomers or old hands, students or instructors, amateurs or professionals. As the always clear and direct Stein explains here, "This is not a book of theory. It is a book of usable solutions--how to fix writing that is flawed, how to improve writing that is good, how to create interesting writing in the first place."“
Stolen Focus: Why You Can't Pay Attention--and How to Think Deeply Again - Johann Hari
“In the United States, teenagers can focus on one task for only sixty-five seconds at a time, and office workers average only three minutes. Like so many of us, Johann Hari was finding that constantly switching from device to device and tab to tab was a diminishing and depressing way to live. He tried all sorts of self-help solutions—even abandoning his phone for three months—but nothing seemed to work. So Hari went on an epic journey across the world to interview the leading experts on human attention—and he discovered that everything we think we know about this crisis is wrong.”
Stumbling on Happiness - Daniel Gilbert
“In this brilliant book, renowned Harvard psychologist Daniel Gilbert describes the foibles of imagination and illusions of foresight that cause each of us to misconceive our tomorrows and misestimate our satisfactions. With penetrating insight and sparkling prose, Gilbert explains why we seem to know so little about the hearts and minds of the people we are about to become.”
Superintelligence: Paths, Dangers, Strategies - Nick Bostrom
“A New York Times bestseller
Superintelligence asks the questions: What happens when machines surpass humans in general intelligence? Will artificial agents save or destroy us? Nick Bostrom lays the foundation for understanding the future of humanity and intelligent life.”
“Surely You’re Joking, Mr. Feynman!”: Adventures of a Curious Character - Richard P. Feynman, Ralph Leighton
“One of the most famous science books of our time, the phenomenal national bestseller that "buzzes with energy, anecdote and life. It almost makes you want to become a physicist" (Science Digest).
Richard P. Feynman, winner of the Nobel Prize in physics, thrived on outrageous adventures. In this lively work that “can shatter the stereotype of the stuffy scientist” (Detroit Free Press), Feynman recounts his experiences trading ideas on atomic physics with Einstein and cracking the uncrackable safes guarding the most deeply held nuclear secrets―and much more of an eyebrow-raising nature. In his stories, Feynman’s life shines through in all its eccentric glory―a combustible mixture of high intelligence, unlimited curiosity, and raging chutzpah.”
The Surrender Experiment: My Journey into Life's Perfection - Michael A. Singer
“In The Surrender Experiment, Michael A. Singer tells the extraordinary story of what happened when, after a deep spiritual awakening, he decided to relinquish his personal fears and desires and simply let life unfold before him.”
The Swerve: How the World Became Modern - Stephen Greenblatt
“Winner of the Pulitzer Prize for Nonfiction • Winner of the National Book Award • New York Times Bestseller
Renowned scholar Stephen Greenblatt brings the past to vivid life in what is at once a supreme work of scholarship, a literary page-turner, and a thrilling testament to the power of the written word.“An intellectually invigorating, nonfiction version of a Dan Brown–like mystery-in-the-archives thriller.” —Boston Globe”
🎁 Sybille Bedford: A Life - Selina Hastings

“Passionate, liberated, fiercely independent, Sybille Bedford was a writer and a journalist, the author of ten books, including a biography of Aldous Huxley, and four novels, all of which fictionalized her extraordinary life. Born in Berlin, she grew up in Baden, first with her distant, aristocratic father, and then in France with her intellectual, narcissistic, morphine-addicted mother and her lover. She was a child with a German Jewish background who survived two world wars and went on to spend her adult life in exile in France, Italy, New York, and Los Angeles, before finally settling in England.”
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🎁 Tao Te Ching: A New English Version - Stephen Mitchell, Lao Tzu
The Book That Travels With Me Everywhere…
“In eighty-one brief chapters, Lao-tzu's Tao Te Ching, or Book of the Way, provides advice that imparts balance and perspective, a serene and generous spirit, and teaches us how to work for the good with the effortless skill that comes from being in accord with the Tao—the basic principle of the universe.”
Thank You for Arguing, Third Edition - Jay Heinrichs
Shut your Drunk Uncle up once and for all.
“Your ultimate guide to the art of winning arguments. Everyone is always trying to persuade us of something: politicians, advertising, the media, and most definitely our families. Thank You for Arguing is your master class in the art of persuasion, taught by professors ranging from Bart Simpson to Winston Churchill. With all the wisdom of the ages, from classical oratory to contemporary politics and pop-culture, Thank You For Arguing shows you how to win more than your fair share of arguments.”
The Things We Make: The Unknown History of Invention from Cathedrals to Soda Cans - Bill Hammack
“Discover the secret method used to build the world…
For millennia, humans have used one simple method to solve problems. Whether it's planting crops, building skyscrapers, developing photographs, or designing the first microchip, all creators follow the same steps to engineer progress. But this powerful method, the "engineering method", is an all but hidden process that few of us have heard of―let alone understand―but that influences every aspect of our lives.
🎁 Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar- Strayed, Cheryl
You’re not alone, Sweet Pea.
“The internationally acclaimed author of Wild collects the best of The Rumpus's Dear Sugar advice columns plus never-before-published pieces. Rich with humor and insight—and absolute honesty—this "wise and compassionate" (New York Times Book Review) book is a balm for everything life throws our way.
Life can be hard: your lover cheats on you; you lose a family member; you can’t pay the bills—and it can be great: you’ve had the hottest sex of your life; you get that plum job; you muster the courage to write your novel. Sugar—the once-anonymous online columnist at The Rumpus, now revealed as Cheryl Strayed, author of the bestselling memoir Wild—is the person thousands turn to for advice.”
Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything - BJ Fogg, PhD
Dr. Fogg is the Godfather of all these “habits” gurus.
“New York Times Bestseller | A habit expert from Stanford University shares his breakthrough method for building habits quickly and easily. With Tiny Habits you’ll increase productivity by tapping into positive emotions to create a happier and healthier life. Dr. Fogg’s new and extremely practical method picks up where Atomic Habits left off.”
Tracing Back the Radiance: Chinul's Korean Way of Zen (Kuroda Classics in East Asian Buddhism, 2) - Robert E. Buswell Jr.
“Chinul (1158–1210) was the founder of the Korean tradition of Zen. He provides one of the most lucid and accessible accounts of Zen practice and meditation to be found anywhere in East Asian literature. Tracing Back the Radiance, an abridgment of Buswell’s Korean Approach to Zen: The Collected Works of Chinul, combines an extensive introduction to Chinul’s life and thought with translations of three of his most representative works.
The True Believer: Thoughts on the Nature of Mass Movements (Perennial Classics) - Hoffer, Eric
Bust out your highlighter.
“A stevedore on the San Francisco docks in the 1940s, Eric Hoffer wrote philosophical treatises in his spare time while living in the railroad yards. The True Believer—the first and most famous of his books—was made into a bestseller when President Eisenhower cited it during one of the earliest television press conferences.
Called a “brilliant and original inquiry” and “a genuine contribution to our social thought” by Arthur Schlesinger, Jr., this landmark in the field of social psychology is completely relevant and essential for understanding the world today as it delivers a visionary, highly provocative look into the mind of the fanatic and a penetrating study of how an individual becomes one.”
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The Undoing Project: A Friendship That Changed Our Minds - Michael Lewis, Dennis Boutsikaris, et al.
“Forty years ago, Israeli psychologists Daniel Kahneman and Amos Tversky wrote a series of breathtakingly original papers that invented the field of behavioral economics. One of the greatest partnerships in the history of science, Kahneman and Tversky’s extraordinary friendship incited a revolution in Big Data studies, advanced evidence-based medicine, led to a new approach to government regulation, and made much of Michael Lewis’s own work possible. In The Undoing Project, Lewis shows how their Nobel Prize–winning theory of the mind altered our perception of reality.”
The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself - Michael A. Singer
“#1 New York Times bestseller
What would it be like to free yourself from limitations and soar beyond your boundaries? What can you do each day to discover inner peace and serenity? The Untethered Soul offers simple yet profound answers to these questions.”
The Unthinkable: Who Survives When Disaster Strikes - and Why - Amanda Ripley
“Discover how human beings react to danger–and what makes the difference between life and death.”
🎁 Up To Speed - Christine Yu
Every coach of female athletes, parent of female athletes, and female athletes themselves at ANY life stage must pause and read this.
“How the latest science can help women achieve their athletic potential.
Sports and health journalist Christine Yu disentangles myth and gender bias from real science, making the case for new approaches that can help women athletes excel at every stage of life, from adolescence to adulthood, through pregnancy, menopause, and beyond. She explains the latest research and celebrates the researchers, athletes, and advocates pushing back against the status quo and proposing better solutions to improve the active and athletic lives of women and girls.”
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🎁 Vagabonding: An Uncommon Guide to the Art of Long-Term World Travel - Potts, Rolf
“There’s nothing like vagabonding: taking time off from your normal life—from six weeks to four months to two years—to discover and experience the world on your own terms. In this one-of-a-kind handbook, veteran travel writer Rolf Potts explains how anyone armed with an independent spirit can achieve the dream of extended overseas travel.”
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The War of Art: Break Through the Blocks and Win Your Inner Creative Battles - Pressfield, Steven
“Why is there a naysayer within? How can we avoid the roadblocks of any creative endeavor—be it starting up a dream business venture, writing a novel, or painting a masterpiece?”
The Wave: In Pursuit of the Rogues, Freaks, and Giants of the Ocean - Casey, Susan
“NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • In this "wonderfully vivid, kinetic narrative" (The New York Times), the bestselling author of Voices in the Ocean captures colossal, ship-swallowing waves, and the surfers and scientists who seek them out.”
The Wayfinders: Why Ancient Wisdom Matters in the Modern World - Wade Davis
“Every culture is a unique answer to a fundamental question: What does it mean to be human and alive? In The Wayfinders, renowned anthropologist, winner of the prestigious Samuel Johnson Prize, and National Geographic Explorer-in-Residence Wade Davis leads us on a thrilling journey to celebrate the wisdom of the world's indigenous cultures.”
We Are Never Meeting in Real Life - Samantha Irby
“NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • This essay collection from the “bitches gotta eat” blogger, writer on Hulu’s Shrill and HBO's And Just Like That, and “one of our country’s most fierce and foulmouthed authors” (Amber Tamblyn, Vulture) is sure to make you alternately cackle with glee and cry real tears.”
What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing - Oprah Winfrey, Bruce D. Perry
“ONE MILLION COPIES SOLD
#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER
Our earliest experiences shape our lives far down the road, and What Happened to You? provides powerful scientific and emotional insights into the behavioral patterns so many of us struggle to understand.
This book is going to change the way you see your life.”
The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind - Daniel J. J. Siegel, Tina Payne Bryson
“NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER
In this pioneering, practical book, Daniel J. Siegel, neuropsychiatrist and author of the bestselling Mindsight, and parenting expert Tina Payne Bryson offer a revolutionary approach to child rearing with twelve key strategies that foster healthy brain development, leading to calmer, happier children.”
Why We Can’t Wait - Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
“Martin Luther King’s classic exploration of the events and forces behind the Civil Rights Movement—including his Letter from Birmingham Jail, April 16, 1963.
“There comes a time when the cup of endurance runs over, and men are no longer willing to be plunged into the abyss of despair.””
Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail - Cheryl Strayed
“At twenty-two, Cheryl Strayed thought she had lost everything. In the wake of her mother’s death, her family scattered and her own marriage was soon destroyed. Four years later, with nothing more to lose, she made the most impulsive decision of her life. With no experience or training, driven only by blind will, she would hike more than a thousand miles of the Pacific Crest Trail from the Mojave Desert through California and Oregon to Washington State—and she would do it alone.”
With the Lapps in the High Mountains: A Woman among the Sami, 1907–1908 - Emilie Demant Hatt, Barbara Sjöholm, Hugh Beach
Fascinating and addictive. Lest we forget what the Scandinavian countries did to their own indigenous people. Read this in one weekend and could not put down. I think of this woman’s story and experiences constantly.
“With the Lapps in the High Mountains is an entrancing true account, a classic of travel literature, and a work that deserves wider recognition as an early contribution to ethnographic writing. Published in 1913 and available here in its first English translation, it is the narrative of Emilie Demant Hatt's nine-month stay in the tent of a Sami family in northern Sweden in 1907–8 and her participation in a dramatic reindeer migration over snow-packed mountains to Norway with another Sami community in 1908. A single woman in her thirties, Demant Hatt immersed herself in the Sami language and culture. She writes vividly of daily life, women's work, children's play, and the care of reindeer herds in Lapland a century ago.”
The Writer’s Journey - 25th Anniversary Edition: Mythic Structure for Writers- Christopher Vogler
For fans of Jung, Campbell and the art of story.
“Originally an influential memo Vogler wrote for Walt Disney Animation executives regarding The Lion King, The Writer’s Journey details a twelve-stage, myth-inspired method that has galvanized Hollywood’s treatment of cinematic storytelling.”
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You're Not Listening: What You're Missing and Why It Matters - Kate Murphy
Buy more highlighters and sticky notes for this one.
“In this always illuminating and often humorous deep dive, Murphy explains why we’re not listening, what it’s doing to us, and how we can reverse the trend. She makes accessible the psychology, neuroscience, and sociology of listening while also introducing us to some of the best listeners out there (including a CIA agent, focus group moderator, bartender, radio producer, and top furniture salesman).”